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Useful Study Motivation Tips

1. Be Curious – get interested in the subject you’re studying

When you’re interested in the subject you’re studying, things become so much easier. You’ll be naturally motivated to learn and read about it. So how do we become interested in what we’re studying? We adopt a curious attitude. As long as you’re curious enough, anything can be interesting.

Question it, use your imagination, get inside the subject, understand what makes it tick, find out how you can apply it in life, read real life case studies. There are many ways to make a subject interesting when you adopt a curious mindset.

2. Set a schedule and study at the right time

Set a study schedule everyday. It’s good to plan your day in advance. Set a specific time for studying, and a time for playing or relaxing. This way, you won’t worry about ‘missing’ your fun. You may be studying hard now, but you know that later on you’ll be enjoying yourself. So this keeps you focused on studying in the present.

Here’s a tip : When planning your day, it’s always good to study first. If you think you should watch some TV or relax a little first before ‘getting down to it’, you’re making a big mistake. Doing that will only make it harder for you to start studying. The first step is always the hardest.

Also when setting study schedules, schedule your studying time at the time of the day where there will be the least distractions. Also choose the time when you’re at your peak state to study. This means obviously not studying after heavy meals (where digestion will make you sleepy) and times where you’ll be tired (ie. late nights)

3. Get started – 5 minute challenge

The hardest part of doing anything is getting started. The first step is always the toughest. After you got that out of the way, it’s all downhill. This is because once you’ve got momentum; it’s easy to keep it going. So it’s vital that you get yourself going in the first place.

This study motivation tip can help you get started. This is what you can do, whenever you’re not motivated to start studying, just plan to study for 5 minutes. That’s it, just 5 minutes. Tell yourself that you’ll be studying seriously for 5 minutes then you’ll stop.

Usually, what happens is after the 5 minutes are up, you would have been well into the swing of things that you’ll want to continue studying longer. Yeah that’s right. It’s quite a cool way to ‘trick’ ourselves. The key here is to make sure that for those 5 minutes you are really studying 100%. Not dreaming or getting distracted by other stuff.

4. Stop/start at the fun part

When having to stop for breaks, meals or other activities, plan to stop when you’re at a fun part of the subject. The parts that are more interesting and enjoyable to you. This way, when you continue to study later, it’ll be much easier to get started because you’ll be starting at the fun parts.

5. Remove distractions from your surroundings

Obviously this is very important for your study motivation. When you got the TV, phone, computer, bed, magazines etc nearby, you’ll be easily tempted to throw your books aside. Try to remove as many distractions away from you as possible.

You don’t need strand yourself on an island with only your books. Just make sure that any of these distractions are not near you.

When the remote is right next to you, you’re more likely to pick it up. Same with your phone, laptop etc. But if you have to walk all the way across to another part of the house to watch TV chances are you’ll be less likely to do it.

6. Set a study area – make it as conducive as possible

The environment can play a big part in your study motivation. Imagine studying in a dimly lit, hot and stuffy room with loud music on playing in the corner. Or, in a quiet room, bright, with the right temperature and good air ventilation. Which room would make you feel more motivated to study?

If possible, have a regular study area. Make sure it’s conducive like being well lit, has ventilation, quiet and so on. Place all your notebooks, stationary, reference books in your study area. Make your study area as conducive to studying as possible.

7. Put yourself in a strong motivated state

Take 5 minutes before you start studying to put yourself into the proper state. Turn off any music, sit down, clear your mind and take deep breaths. Say a prayer or do some visualizations and light meditation. Visualize yourself happily studying and clearly understanding what you have learned.

Other methods include pumping yourself up by saying encouraging words and making a fist, and also by using NLP techniques such as anchoring and submodalities.

8. Set Goals

Setting goals will give you more motivation. When there’s a target to aim at, we’ll be more determined rise up to the challenge and push ourselves to achieve it. The sense of satisfaction from the achievement is also a good confidence booster. And it will cultivate a studying habit.

Set goals such as how many sections/chapters you plan to cover within a period of time, grades to score in tests and others.

9. Reward yourself

Finally remember to reward yourself for the job well done. If you’ve stuck to your schedule, didn’t let yourself get distracted and successfully achieved the goals you set out, you deserve a reward for that.

Reward yourself immediately. It doesn’t even need to be anything major, just simple things like enjoying an ice-cream sundae, watching your favorite TV show or calling friends up to chat. Of course, also give yourself big rewards whenever you have major achievements.

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Final thoughts…

Remember, the toughest part in studying is to get started. As long as you are determined and push yourself to pick up the book, half the battle is already won. With willpower, determination and using the study motivation tips above, getting study motivation shouldn’t be a problem anymore!


(pick from http://www.self-improvement-mentor.com/study-motivation.html )

很有效哦~跟我一样没耐心读书的，不妨试试~
其实我觉得还有一个，就是常常把你的梦想拿出来欣赏一下，呵呵~顿时就会非常motivated哦

呵呵~这是我的梦想大学~很遥远！！！！

也很难~~ :(

不过

人因梦想而伟大！！

哈哈~

你的呢？

不妨也来幻想一下吧！

也许将来某一天你会变成。。

专科医生？

著名律师？？

还是教授？？（不会越教越瘦的那种）

hotel manager also not bad right??

Woohoo~~shoe designer!!! :D

当然，最幸福的，还是。。

富家太太！！！

当个少奶奶，什么都不用做~~

天天HighTea...spa...shopping

当David Beckham的老婆！

一世都不用忧！

哈哈~醒来啦！！

发梦都没那么早~~

还是回到现实生活中努力吧~也许将来还能当Beckham的儿子的老婆

哈哈哈哈哈哈~

这篇有点无聊~

的确，

梦

发完了

就要回到现实好好打拚了！！！！！

:D

Fun假趣玩！！

哈哈！那个标题是抄袭 Astro 的广告的啦！很兴奋地说，我这一次，不再埋怨假期是有多么的无聊。超喜欢现在的生活，既有意义又充实！你们呢？

前天又兴致勃勃地去学画画了，哈哈！果然又进步少少了，哟！陈佩君，难得会有成就感哦！要不要upload??不要啦，因为自从用i-Phone以后就很少能将照片接到电脑了，因为不可以的，很麻烦就是这里咯。所以通常都是直接拍了就Upload到面子书。所以懒惰copy来paste去。呵呵~不过其实我也觉得自己画得不错啦。

像我这种比ulat buku还强的人怎么可能在这个假期里少了书本的陪伴呢？哈哈~我最近心血来潮的去书店买了一大堆书。花了一百五十块！哦~妈妈的荷包大出血！！买了一些课外书~还有更奇怪的买了一本马来Novel。其实是他的故事情节吸引了我。Dunia Jam 10。是讲一个15岁女生如何在晚上十点后进入另外一个世界。很奇幻吧？很久没有看这类的书了，顺便增强一下马来文。看的时候超有成就感，因为那些kosa kata 都是Cikgu Tan教过的，而我又没有忘记哦！Example: tersungkur, Alhamdulilah, waktu magrib, ternganga....哈哈！是不是很强叻。其实我觉得蛮好看的，也蛮好笑，一点都不闷哦！有时候还是不要一只竹杆打翻整条船啦。不过我觉得还不够！哈哈~这个月的18号，在The Mines有书香！！Woohoo~我觉得那边比较能够满足我，呵呵~本来是约了朋友一起去的，不过看来她应该在忙着其他事，所以有谁要跟我一起去？来嘛~ ;) 别害羞~姐姐带你！哈哈~~恶心

然后当然就是向自己最主要的目标迈进——英文咯！对啊~每天都在翻字典，哟~又想买那本学校介绍的Cambridge。不过我在书店没有看到，只看到Oxford的，看下价钱：RM79.90。算了，还是等爸爸带我出来的时候才买吧~我老妈可没做工的。所以暂时就用自己install的app来查先啦~当然在书店是有买到一些很棒的英文书啦~超喜欢Wangsa Walk 的Popular。其他的都很少看到Singapore Syllabus 的。那三本作业就花了我RM50！！马来西亚的币值可以不要再跌了吗？！不过，再贵也是值得的，International考题叻~ 虽然我做了1set,简直就是不及格！！！:( 不过还要努力！迟点再去图书馆借Vocab的吧！这个假期，我一定要把自己的英文水平提高，至少要向Yu Jun, Sheng Yee, Mok Mok....看齐！哈哈~好像有点勉强。呵呵~

还有还有，这个是我最爽的~就是帮人家补习，哈哈~其实我小时候的cita-cita是要当一名老师的咯~很喜欢教人那种感觉，从小到现在，我都是拿我妹妹来试用。哈哈~虽然最近这两年因为考试很少教她，导致她退班！！！气死我了~我从来都没有跌过班，她竟然破我记录！所以这次我决定要在这个假期好好“折磨”她！哈哈~让他明年可以把课业追上，不要给她这个这么“厉害”的姐姐丢脸！而且我妈咪说可以给我补习费哦，一个月60块，不错的offer!哈哈~所以去书店也帮他买了一大叠书，每天看他做！负责任吧？呵呵~而且我过后可能还有表弟要来给我指导指导哦！都是那三科：Sejarah, Geografi, KH。。前面两个我还ok...KH就。。paiseh!!我整年都没有听课的，而且到了PMR那天我也还没有读完。所以，帮不到他了。所以为了这个，我还要重新翻回那些课本，准备准备，不然到时人家问到我不会回答就好笑了。

还有什么？哦~妈咪要我去学回Electone咯。其实我比较想学钢琴，不过看她酱坚持，好像没有商量的余地，再看看吧~也许我可以两个都学？没有酱多钱~咳~不懂咯。到时再看！

我希望我的假期能够再再再充实一点。我已经拟好我的假期目标了。。现在完成了几个，剩下的，再慢慢来吧！假期愉快！:D

啊~对，在听着一首很不错的歌~很活泼的！《偷偷的爱》By 叮当和严爵 听了还想再听，赞！

终于放下了

对啊！我很为自己感到欣慰，终于，耗了5个月的时间，我终于放下了。这是我人生中第一次面对到如此复杂的问题，开始长大，开始成熟，我就懂得为友谊真心付出，我觉得很光荣。因为我比别人更早学会拿得起，放得下这个道理。果然，应验了“休息是为了走更长的路”这句话。这个假期的开始，我不断反复思索，思索着为什么我还是那么的不开心，为什么还无法原谅别人、宽恕自己，想了很久，今天，这个美好的一天，我觉悟了。曾经有朋友向我讨教，我是如何自己学习成长的，如何变得比以前更成熟一点的，原来这些，都是需要自己亲身经历的，经过时间的琢磨，我们才会对自己长期的处境改变一下想法，当这种思想慢慢蜕变时，它就会成为你的新思想。思想的转变，意味着一个人的成长。我很喜欢、也很开心自己能够走过了、渡过了这一条坎坷的开始之路，我成功创了这第一关。15岁，真的能让人成长很多，我要感恩上帝让我遇到困难，又提着一盏明灯，让我解决困难，走过了，其实真的觉得之前的一切真的没什么。对人好，不需要回报，主动传简讯给自己关心的人，不需要强求他一定要回复你；第一次对朋友付出那颗最真诚的心，也不需要期望她也同样把你摆在第一位，因为做人不应该把简单美好的人际关系变得复杂，好朋友不需要做到形影不离，也不需要天长地久，更不需要没有你不能活，这样，只会搞砸了一切。因为，越强求的东西，越不珍贵，越不美好。让一切顺其自然吧。只要是怀着一颗真诚的心，就不怕没有人看见你。这是我终于领悟到的，虽然我说出来，你们未必能够跟我感同身受，因为人是独立的个体，思想是独立的，就算能有一样的感觉，也只因为你也曾经走过这条路。所以，那个还在这个问题里纠缠的好朋友，就让时间来拯救你吧~ 我没有办法把我的体会跟你分享。

“人和人，本来就不应该太复杂。
再怎么形影不离的两个人，
经过多么错综复杂的交叉线，轮回重演，
最后还是会变成完全不同两个世界的平行线。
这就是相处。 ”

这个，是我从某个朋友的部落格里看到的，它让我领悟很多。

学习放下，一点都不容易，有些人花了半年，有些人要花个两三年，有些人甚至花了一辈子也没办法领悟到，而我，只花了五个月，所以我是应该开心的。成长有时虽然痛苦，但是走过了以后，就会很快乐。希望朋友们能够陪我一起成长，加油！

好朋友，我终于能够大声地对你们说：“我放下了，以前的一切，就让它成为我们的借鉴吧！”

终于，在走之前，我能够做到Cikgu Tan对我说的话了。

今天超开心的，待会儿庆祝庆祝吧！厄。。看3个小时的电视，Yeah!!

Anyeonghaseyo!

你好！好久不见，我又上来了！本来是没什么心情上来post的，不过昨天听到有人叫我update，加上我又发现了新的观众原来有在看我的部落格，所以今天心情特好，想必灯下应该有很多长篇大论迎接你们吧。

嗯，就从那天说起吧！对！就是那天，如果你跟我同校、又有缘地跟我同年，你就会知道那天，我们学校举办了一个English Performance for Junior Middle Three Students。原本我并没有什么兴趣参加，因为毕竟这种东西离我太遥远了。不过后来我有一个新想法，就是可以在我的初三生涯结束以前跟朋友知己们做一件从未做过的事！所以在截止日期的前一分钟，我匆匆地拉着思玄和乐颖陪我一起参加，完成这项壮举！Woohoo~想法是很好啦！起初我们也很开心，但之后。。。

中间那段，不是很方便写出来。不想人家说我故意找架来吵，让某些人能够趁机装可怜，博取同情，所以天知，我知就好了，你不需知！xD

终于到了那一天！有些紧张，很久没有上台表演的我对舞台是那么地陌生。不过，看着我那四个好伙伴，我决定跟他们一起玩，享受那一刻。虽然彩排时错漏百出，舞步跟不上，钢琴又频频出错，但是，到了正式的那一刻，我觉得有没有错误已经不再是问题，我只知道，我们已经很成功了，比起那些根本没有勇气上台的朋友，比起那些只会在旁喝倒彩的朋友，比起那些觉得我们不会跳舞却在那边乱摆乱跳的朋友，我觉得我们已经很强了！Yeah!

而且从上次的表演，我也学会了很多东西，因为自告奋勇的我要求了当司仪的机会，这可是我梦寐以求的，不想再错过这个机会，那一次，虽然我并没有作得很好，但是我学会了怎样跟参赛者沟通，我学会怎样跟做音响的学兄配合，我学会怎样反应变快，当然我也学会就算同学们已经下课，或全部已经去看日本学生了没人看也要坚持、用心地主持下去。所以我很开心，自己终于有勇气、主动地要求我想做的，因为我又忘我的目标跨了一步，就算只是一小步，也好过我停留原地，不是吗？当然在主持的时候也有些令我非常气愤的东西，不过我是怎么安慰我自己的？她这样突然跑掉，是他吃亏，因为他没有学到我学到的东西 :)

过了这一天，回到家，躺在床上，我真的觉得我参加这次的表演是很值得的，因为我真的学到很多东西，我学会如何去接受一些非如我所愿的事情，配合大家，甚至是在一个团体里面如何生活。总而言之，这是非常有意义的一天。还有，这是我初三生涯一个很好的纪念，和朋友们的纪念，我总算达成了我最当初打算参加的目标和愿望。

Cheers :)

Today is a great day :)

I went to my secret place.

And i feel recharged and energetic after going there...always :)

That's what i love about that place.

It's my domain...haha XD

Well, my holiday journey has started.

And I am going through my holiday plans!!!

Woohoo~~

SPRINT!!!!!

Dudes, have you planned for your holidays???

Don't wait for any longer

Don't make yourself regret AGAIN...(like me)

So, get up and muster up your courage and do everything you desire at the bottom of your heart

Yay!!!

One more important thing I must settle it today.

Yes.

I don't wanna get entangled in this dilemma anymore...

Set me free :)

I don't wanna care whether i am alone or not anymore....

I don't want this nightmare to bother me anymore...

I believe my choice to leave is the best solution...

Just 2 weeks more to go...

It's okay to be alone.

Only 2 weeks.

I believe I can get over it.

Yay!!

Done :)

Everything will be back to normal and let's shout out!

It's our holidays NOW!!!!

Don't waste your time anymore!!!

Achieve your goal and pursue your dream now!!

Gambateh!! :D

Indifference

Woohoo

The exams are over!

I think my attitude towards PMR exam is much better than UEC

Cause

Something extraordinary has been full-filling my mind after my PMR exam

That's

I hope to change into a new school

Yea...

But hope is just a hope.

I don't feel regret for not studying properly and hard for the UEC exam however

I guess this is not me.

I used to treat my result as the most important thing in the world...

and now I am really tired for that.

I guess I am just not good enough....it's already 9 years...

9 years... I haven't had reached the 1st place in the school neither in the class...

2nd or 3rd?? it has never been me...

Haiz...

so, i think i just no need to use my result as to evaluate myself....

Maybe i can do better in other things or whatever

I just wanna be happy and be myself.

And most important thing which i realize now is...

I want to lead a wonderful life...

I am not a "exam or test machine"

But still i can pass all the exams with flying colors...

I can handle my studies smart.

This is what i hope right now

That's why i think of changing into a new school

 a new environment

I hope to start things all over again.

So.

I am sure i won't be sad or down if i can't score full A

This is what i promise to myself.

It's already November and

I am planning how to spend my holidays.

I hope someone could hire me too ****

hehex

Oh,

hang out with my Star Gang yesterday

Yea... star gang

><"

had lots of fun with them...

Bought a bag with my bosom friend

Same style....just different color.

I wanna tell her that

It's the best bag i have ever bought not because the bag is the prettiest...

it's because is she who accompany me to buy it

So thanks.

I am sure I will miss my dearest friends.

Form three is a really unforgettable one

sweet, salty, sour or bitter...

I tasted every bit of it just in a year.

This may be the happiest year to me

I hope to lock those sweet memories up

But this may also be the most unhappy year to me

I hope those sad and awful memories will be deleted permanently from my mind

So...

It's a meaningful year

I learnt much from it

But however

I hope to leave

And I am sure i won't forget them

my fellows

especially Elaine Chan

She affects me the most

I hope our bond wouldn't be cut.

And both of us will be back to the beginning

That's the dream i hope most to be realized.

Yay!

:)

Finally and finally

Finally......
I get what i've longing for...
Yes...
Iphone 4!!!!!!!!

I bought it on Monday
..
..
..but now i still can't manage how to connect pc with iTunes...

Totally a nerd.

Asking my friend who is a tech expert.

Anyway...

iPhone 4 is great :)

Most of my friends get curious about why don't i just wait for iPhone 5??

This is a good question, but...

no reason larh~~~

A small bad effect after i own this beautiful creature is.....

I just keep tapping on it and...yes...i have to admit that i have my study thrown out...ok...just a lil' bit..cuz at least my sejarah still remain A (but from 90 to 84...) and my science...stays good like never before...haha xD

(Actually it's a big bad effect...as far as my mum have known nothing abt it...this is still a small case...hehe)

Ok...stop "showing off" and now...

I have to face a terrible fact

PMR TRIAL IS COMING SOOOOOO SOON...

and to make it worst...

I HAVE PREPARE NOTHING YET

omg~~~

I don't hope God to bless me this stupid lazy nerd before i study anything yet

I hope to get back to my study condition as fast as possible and then God, you may, please bless me for not dying too badly in the trial....you know...Actually trial exam should be the most difficult and bloody scary exam...because the teachers' aim is to kill students mercilessly....

Ok, done. Got back to work.. See yea ;)